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Hello liberals.

LGBT+ Lib Dems recently made a statement about the safety of its members at Spring Conference. In it, they mentioned some incidents of harassment occurring at Autumn Conference last year. I am one of the people who was harassed by a supporter of Liberal Voice for Women while on the Plus stall.

I have been informed that LVW also made a public statement in response to Plus. In it, they attempt to persuade the reader that the man who harassed me was, essentially, too pathetic to be intimidating. This is an odd choice for a group who state they care deeply about the rights of women and girls, but we don’t really need to rehash all that here (although I will say that when sitting alone, a man who leans into your personal space so far you could count his nose hairs doesn’t need to be built like a bouncer to be intimidating).

No, my biggest concern with their statement is their ableism.

As both statements are publicly available, it’s OK to tell you that the man concerned was diagnosed as autistic after harassing me. The LVW statement implies that he shouldn’t be held accountable for his actions.

Let’s unpack that.

I’m autistic and dyspraxic. Dyspraxia is a specific learning difficulty which means a person struggles with sequences. It’s associated with coordination problems. Because of my dyspraxia, I find driving lessons much more challenging than the average person. Should I, as a disability accommodation, be offered a less rigorous driving test so I have a better chance of passing? 

Hopefully, reader, your answer is an obvious “hell no”. It would make the roads less safe for everyone, including me. Someone who hadn’t learnt to drive safely could just pass the simplified test because of a diagnosis that says they’re inherently slower to learn physical skills. The correct accommodations are those that don’t compromise everyone’s safety (including mine). These include learning to drive an automatic (which several dyspraxic people I know have done) but could also just mean doing more driving lessons than the average person.