National vote third at 15%, up 45+ Councillors! Scottish mainland seats gained! Overall, these elections were an important step forward in recovery for the Liberal Democrats.
However, this was not a uniform set of results. There were disappointing results in Wales and London, along with some English areas. We should think twice when discussing with colleagues how we did.
Candy Piercy wrote this which struck a chord with me:
The hard working candidates and teams who lost will be feeling out of step with the rest of the party. It is not just Wales and London feeling the pain. There are many candidates who bravely put themselves forward hoping against hope that they would win.
So how should we be approaching things? Well, the field of communication skills has some suggestions.
There’s a saying “the map is not the territory.” People have different ways of interpreting the world. A mental map of how they interpret things. Their map may not only different from yours, but different to what is actually going on.
We should understand these different points of view, which comes naturally to liberals. Avoid assuming people feel the same way about these election results. Instead, ask people “How do you feel we did?” Listen to their experience. Feel how they feel. See things from their point of view. Empathise if they have lost and you have won.